You Will Never Truly Know
The goal of this article is to help you better assess if your friends really do hate you, but the truth is that unless they say it directly on your face, you can only know so much.
Are Your Friends Ignoring You?
Sometimes, life makes us part ways with those we cherrished the most, and that’s life, accept it and move on.
High school ends, college ends, workpaths are split, and the people we met in the process are separated from us, in ways that we are left with no choice but to move on.
A lot of times what happens is that we try to keep contact with those people, we do our best, but maybe you think their not doing their share in trying to be present, and that leads to resentment, but that does not mean that they hate you, absolutely not, but it’s not a good sign either.
Do They Treat You with Respect?
Normal people will treat each other with respect, unless they hold a grudge or do it in a fun not mean to offend way.
So how are your friends treating you?
Have you done something lately that have hurt them?
Do you want to be friends with someone who doesn’t respect you?
Those questions will aid you in taking better decisions.
Are You an ***hole?
No wonder your friends hate to be around you if you have been bad company for a long time, sometimes we have to admit that we have done something wrong, crossed borders we shouldn’t have and so on.
Are You Being Considerate of Your Friend’s Rules?
Look, I get it, we need time to adjust to the rules of other people, heck, even to know each persons borders which not to cross, it is completely normal and acceptable.
Sometimes we are not aware that we are being a dick and crossing borders, perhaps your friend is an introvert and you are pushing to hard, maybe your friend wants space and you are smothering him.
You Messed Up with Your Friend
A Couple of Years ago I did something which I will never forget.
I forgot the birthday of a friend that is very dear to me, there are many excuses I could say I had, but bottomline, that was what happened, and at the end of the day, I made my friend very sad.
It’s okay, we can no longer change what was happened, but the future is out into the open, so do not be too down on yourself, try to make up to your friend, any way you can.
You Are Being Paranoid
Well, maybe you are being paranoid, maybe not, but there is some stuff that perhaps you are not aware of as a result of being in a semi depressive mental state.
Nobody is Happy All the Time
Everybody has ups and downs, that’s the way it is, you too, is an example of that, you may be facing a down swing in yout life right now, isn’t it?
But you need to fight back, turn the table on life and stop caring so much about what other people think of you, that’s a recipe for living a below average life.
You friend may be pissed of at a circumstance that is personal to him and he doesn’t want to share, with nobody, even his family.
You Are Not Entitled to Your Friend’s Time
Perhaps you think your friend is not spending enough time with you, but let me assure you, it doesn’t matter, that is their choice to make, you’re his friend, not his boss, so stop asking for unreasonable requests, that will only make him more resentful of you.
How Much Your Friend Messages You
Often, we can gauge a person interest in us by the frequency at which that individual contacts us, be it on the phone, messaging, bird mailing, whatever.
Sort Through Your Last Month Messages and Calls
A person that loves you and care about you, will try to keep contact, no matter how much life gets in the way.
Have a Period of No Contact
See how much your friend care about you, if you are always the one initiating messages with your friends, then it is ultimately a unilateral relationship, and that is strong indication that your friends no longer want to be your friend.